Monday, November 14, 2011

Ask For Help

I traveled to see my sister this weekend. To do this:









The stranger lady (with ginormous bosoms) who sat next to me on the plane was very drunk. She stunk like last nights’ beer and I am confident that her bloody mary was a substitute for brushing her teeth. Before, during, and after take off, she took great interest in my baby. She professed her love and vowed not to steal my daughter and repeatedly promised me that she was not crazy. And then she passed out and snored. And then she woke up and asked if she could watch me breastfeed, while trying to crawl under my nursing cover. (No lie) I told her NO. And then she passed out again. And I giggled to myself and felt hyper to relay this story to my friends and family. I watched my baby sleep in my arms and then I watched the stranger. Her face and fingers were swollen and her face was pink in those places that tell me alcohol is in her system and rarely, if ever, leaves it.

I drifted off into humoring myself with my earlier venture through the airport and my shameless solicitations for help when I venture into public with my children: 'Excuse me stranger, will you hold my baby while I tie my shoes, secure my carrier and gather my overflow of diapers, teething things, wallet, and drink into my purse?' 'Uhm, excuse me sirs, will one of you lift my suitcase?' 'Excuse me mam, will you help me carry my luggage?' 'Hi, would you carry this car seat to the curb? Thanks.' Rearing children really is much easier when one asks all manner of people for assistance. Like, stranger in the grocery store: 'Will you hand that spice to me..I cannot reach it and keep my baby from falling out of the cart? Thanks.' Or, lady behind me at the concession stand, 'Will you sign some scribbly initials on that receipt , I have to chase my oldest and this one has my hands full...thanks.' Or, 'Will you open the door for me?', or 'Will you close that door for me?', etc. People are actually amazingly helpful. Sometimes, people even offer their help, unsolicited. Like, 'Mam, you left the doors of your van open in the parking lot. I'd shut them, but you might want to make sure they are locked.' …. It takes a village, right?

The flight attendant rolled her cart by me and asked if I would like peanuts or pretzels to go with my coke. I declined both but Big Miss Drunk Boobs, ordered two vodkas and requested pretzels. She professed her love to my daughter again, drank some vodka, then resumed her snoring/snorting. Her bobble head snored through the duration of the flight. I stared at my sleeping bambina and prayed that she would never get on a plane and act like a drunk fool. And then I prayed that as she grows in life and faces hardship that she would never find comfort in alcohol or rather, the abuse of it. I felt heavy that Miss Drunk Boobs is someone’s daughter too. So, I scribbled on a napkin, “Get help for your drinking problem. You are worth it. Love, the lady with the baby.” I shoved the napkin in her purse before I scurried off the plane and prayed that she would feel worth it and ask for help.

Friday, November 11, 2011

You Know A Child Molester

Nothin' like a little fire in the ol' belly to start off your Friday. This Penn State mess is enough to make me revisit the stomach flu that attacked me earlier this week. If you care to know my thoughts on the matter, I share this lady's (columnist from the New Yorker): http://www.newyorker.com/online/blogs/closeread/2011/11/joe-paternos-tears.html.

I leave you with these statistics:

  • As many as one in three girls and one in seven boys will be sexually abused at some point in their childhood.
    Briere, J., Eliot, D.M. Prevalence and Psychological Sequence of Self-Reported Childhood Physical and Sexual Abuse in General Population: Child Abuse and Neglecti, 2003, 27 10.

    • Child molesters exist in every part of our society.
    • They molest children close to them, mainly children in their family or children in their social circle.
    • Most child molesters, 90 percent, report that they know their child victims very well.


    To re-iterate. This means that YOU, sitting at your computer screen most likely have a pedophile in your family or peer group. You shake their hand at Church and/or Supper Club and/or let your child sleep at their house. Are you scared?

    You should be. Now, educate yourself on how to protect your child and live in reality instead of fear or even worse, naivete.

    This website is an EXCELLENT resource: http://www.childmolestationprevention.org

    And if you would like me to answer questions please comment and or email me. For those of you who don't already know this...Granny's expertise, her education and career ..if you will, is in this field....

    Protect Children (not Football),
    Granny
    email me: grannysbosom@gmail.com

    Wednesday, November 9, 2011

    My Boobs Are Tired

    They are tired of being a kitchen. They are grateful (because it's November) but they are really tired.





















    Monday, November 7, 2011

    Secrets and Hidden Treasures



    This season in my life is not colored with leaves (boo on a southern fall) but with children. Lots of them. Sun up to sun down they knock on my door and eat my food and play in my house and clog my toilet with toilet paper and leave their dirty socks in my hallway, and their muddy footprints in my kitchen and play and fight and play and fight ALL day long. Because it’s November and I am supposed to be thankful and because I’m interested, I’m focusing hard on the realities of childhood.

    In her book, Listening to God With Children, Gianna Gobbi reminds her readers (me) of Maria Montessori’s prayer for teachers.


    “Help us, O God, to enter into the secret of childhood, so that we may know, love and serve the child in accordance with the laws of thy justice and following thy holy will.” Sounds nice , uhh?

    Entering into that secret requires quite a bit from adults. On most days,I imagine it requires more discipline and willingness than adults care to give. Perhaps because they are stressed, or distracted, or hurting, or overwhelmed or maybe they just don’t care. Or maybe they choose their parenting style when they feel insecure as parents because their homes have messes or when their children are disobedient or dirty and impolite. I admit that I have let one of the aforementioned drill my parenting at one < more> time or another. Including impatience with insistance on choosing a hair-do, ignoring requests for attention to mind numb on facebook, rushing through art projects, allowing Nick Jr. to parent, and flat out being rude to my kid and justifying it to myself in the name of PMS. I need no reminders that this parenting business is hard. Especially when it requests that my home be wonder world for the entire neighborhood.

    Digging for treasures is hard work. And I know, so long as I am a parent -because I chose to be, I am my child’s first teacher . And it is my job to reach for an understanding of this secret; this treasure--So I can parent it, nurture it, guide it, and delight in it. I like my job. And today, I am giving thanks for it.

    Thursday, November 3, 2011

    Chicken Legs, Beer, Sex and The Church




    I have a new friend. She feels like an old friend. (Love it when this happens) Last night we rocked on my porch and talked about sex, church, the exploitation of diamond miners(fascinating topic that will take the sparkle out of your diamond rather quickly), Little House on the Prairie, weiner dogs, and Thanksgiving plans. She drank a beer and I ate a chicken leg.



    Our sex conversation went something like this:

    The church (of the Judeo-Christian tradition) is silent on the topic of sexuality for single men and women. Well, they are not silent. They just say, "don't do it." Then most people who fit the category of being single and church going are pushed into a shameful lonely corner of publicly justifying their non married singledom as a cross to bare in the name of the Lord, while also pretending that they are not sexual creatures. Sucks. What to do with sexual urges or arousal? Silence. Masturbation? Silence (or condemnation). Is there a difference between promiscuity and premarital sex? Silence. And with silence comes shame and with shame comes loneliness. Loneliness in a world and community that worships a God who is not only all knowing but created male and female and their sexuality and called it GOOD.


    I don't believe the church and its goers should have all the answers. But when the topic arises they should (at least) be as warm as a good friend, a rocking chair, a beer and a chicken leg. Just sayin'.

    Wednesday, November 2, 2011

    Thought For Today

    (Most)Depressed people are kinder and more perceptive than the average person. They are braver too.

    Friday, October 28, 2011

    Let's Talk About Sex















    I have decided that on Fridays I am going to write about sex. If you want to read about some nook and crannie of the topic, this Granny will deliver. On Fridays.


    The day I started my period was a really good day. I was playing at my best friend's house at the end of my eighth grade year when I first discovered Aunt Ruby had finally decided to pay me a visit. This late bloomer was thrilled for some trace of evidence that she would not be left in the bosom-less awkward dust for too much longer. After excitedly and nervously reporting to my bestie that "I started," I called my Mom, who squealed in delight on the other end of the phone and then came to retrieve me for our first shopping trip down the feminine hygiene aisle followed by a celebration dinner at my favorite restaurant.


    Over the years, I realized that I am in the vast minority of girls who celebrated the onset of her period. In a culture where that event typically evokes shame, embarrassment, teasing and confusion; and in a world where a menstrual cycle symbolizes the end of childhood, the beginning of sexual exploitation, and the covering of one's face for countless girls, I can almost feel guilty as I think about my Mom's kind and hyper face peering over my basket of chicken fingers at Ruby Tuesdays, while we talked about my first period.

    Instead, though, I resolve to create the same pride in my daughters' femininity that my Mom did for me. Beginning with an adherence to these guidelines (I encourage women of all ages to use them):


    1. A girl's vagina is a vagina. It is not a hoo hoo or a ha-ha. Name it what you want but be sure the word vagina can be spoken with no shame and with accuracy. Even toddlers.

    2. Menstrual Cycles are a mark of our unique-ness as women. They are a symbol of our ability to create and sustain life for another human being.

    3. Do not hand children a book about puberty and then go mute. (Because that teaches them that the topic is bad and secretive and shameful to speak about.)

    4. Become an expert on the workings of the Female Body.

    5. If you have daughters, make it your job to ensure they are proud of their growing body.

    6. How you reference and teach young children about their private parts matters. MATTERS A LOT.

    Ok..I'm satisfied with this level of pot stirring.

    For those of you curious, wanting or struggling with All Things the Female Body and Sexuality.... I highly recommend this book: Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom by Christiane Northrup, MD. Order it here:
    http://www.amazon.com/Womens-Bodies-Wisdom-Revised-Emotional/dp/0553386735/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1319814860&sr=1-1

    Or, I can loan you my Mom for a day or so.

    Cheers,
    Granny

    Wednesday, October 26, 2011

    Husbands and Best Friends


    My husband gave a card to me (many years ago) that reads, “Happiness is being married to your best friend.” It’s on my fridge and makes me smile every time I go for ice or ice cream or gogurts or popsicles or frozen peas. Happiness is being married to my husband. Seems as though, happiness for him is being married to me. (Unless, we are in the midst of a knock down drag out where I really want to knock and drag him out …and throw the frozen peas at him). The husband is rather adept at building a meaningful life with this ol’ frozen peas throwing granny. And because of those mad skills, I’ll be happy till the day I die.

    I did not throw any peas last night or any variation thereof. I'm not mad at him either. But, today, I don’t want him to be my best friend. I want the feminine flavor. The one that shaves her legs and lives in Georgia. When we visit we lie awake at night and giggle like we are 12 years old. And then, we wake up and drink coffee and never run out of things to talk about or dream about. And then, we like to shop and walk and talk and think about decorating things and what’s cute and what’s not and then we drink wine and giggle and sometimes cry and sometimes laugh and then we do it all again the next day. And the next. I have never wanted to throw peas at her and she doesn’t leave her whiskers near my toothbrush.

    Monday, October 24, 2011

    Grief


    My chin is most comfortable resting on my knee. Staring out the window while the baby sleeps, helps. Sort of. Patty Griffin and Pandora soften the intensity. I am sad and want to hear her laugh. Just one more time. I want to see her face when I hear it. But I can’t.

    Friday, October 21, 2011

    At The Dinner Table

    Dad, what does being weird mean?


    Well, it can mean different things...Depends on how someone uses the word.


    Why would someone tell another person that they are weird?


    If a person says that are you weird it means that they do not understand who you are.


    Oh. (pause) And if I think someone else is weird, it's because I do not understand them?


    Yep.

    Friday, October 14, 2011

    Wonky



    I have never had a straight walk. Literally. As a child, I walked crooked with pigeon toed feet, until the corrective leg braces worked. As an adolescent on my cross country team, I ran crooked. So much so, my team-mates teasingly kept a wide gate between us during practice. Otherwise they would be inadvertently tripped or cut off by me. I still cannot walk or run in a straight line. Just recently, while walking with a new friend, I warned her of my crooked walk. “Sorry if I elbow you or step on your feet~ I don’t really know how to walk straight.”

    My new friend (who feels like an old friend) suggested we walk in Audubon park, not on the smoothly paved track but through the more wooded, crooked paths on the perimeter. As we were walking and talking about life, as any old friend does best, I quietly thought about my adoration of crooked, unkempt, wonky , messy paths and the people who walk them.

    My own path hasn’t been particularly straight. I guess like many teenagers and twenty something’s I shifted from boyfriends with opposite personalities, rebelled against my faith, drank too much, switched friendship groups, used school loan money to buy cute clothes and was insensitive to my parents and family in the name of independence and “finding myself.” Totally obnoxious. But necessary, I suppose. And comfortable, for she who rarely walks straight or consistently.

    As a married woman with children and a developing career, I have comfortably transcended childhood, adolescence and the aforementioned stage of my twenties. Sigh. Relief. I don’t think I am obnoxious anymore. However my path and person are still not straight. As my daughter affectionately refers to anything that works imperfectly: They are wonky.

    Commonly, I am full of contradictions. For example, I cannot reconcile conflicting political beliefs. Abortion? Murder? Yes. Undeniably. Can I sympathize with the want to end an unwanted pregnancy.Yes. Should any human being be denied access to good medical care? No. Never. It’s as inhumane as murder. Often, it is murder. Does the effect of socialized medicine on society scare me? Yes. Very much. If you could peek inside my soul, or have a script of it, you would see other wonky ways too. They materialize when I use my anger to say hurtful words to my husband, my pride to judge, my laziness to overlook meaning, or my impatience to frustrate my daughter...while my guilt leads me to ask forgiveness and my patience withstands endless days in the floor with a toddler and my love helps me forgive a friend and delight in a hiper child and give my family a warm meal and my husband my undivided attention. If my daughter’s intuition was more sophisticated, she would undoubtedly remind me, “ Mom you are very wonky.”

    For countless moments, I have wished away my unkempt self. “If only I could consistently keep a tidy house, never gossip, lose patience, covet, etc.; Then, I would be straight, consistent, uncrooked, or…something like that.” I don’t even really believe in wishing but I have hoped that my will or prayer or both would propel be a bit closer to straight. Then, I moved to New Orleans. New Orleans, who says, “No.” to perfection, “Yes.” to life and most importantly to me, “Yes.” to a crooked life.

    New Orleans: It’s human and raw and gritty. It’s wonky. I-10 into the city is much like a rickety county fair roller coaster. The roads get worse, the closer you get to local life. Natural speed bumps will ruin the best of car shocks on nearly every New Orlean’s street. Cracked sidewalks make it virtually impossible to stroll a sleeping child. Unashamedly, prostitutes solicit sex. Alcoholism, gluttony,and laziness shine at every corner. The city is dirty. Physically, the dirt and pollution will give allergies to the healthiest horse. Politicians are dirty too. They lie and cheat and steal. Murder and crime are blatant: robbery, rape, drug deals, abuse.
    It’s a brokenness that at times, perhaps, would be relieving to avoid or ignore. Maybe, take a different route to only see beautiful homes or avoid seeing the homeless, ugly and crooked. But you can’t do that in New Orleans. You cannot avoid the bum on the bench, or the cat lady with huge breasts, no bra and a broom, who sweeps the sidewalk all day. There is no straight route home. No smooth road, no uniformity, and no normal.

    Oddly, I believe these are the realities that the disciple Paul encouraged us to ponder when he told us, “Brothers, whatever is true {real} , whatever is lovely…if there be any virtue or praise, think upon such things.” (Philippians 4:8). Truth: the reality that life and death, rich and poor, ugly and beautiful co-exist. Moreover, all humans suffer and sin (albeit to varying degrees) . Truth, like New Orleans, cannot deny that racism and poverty are always staring and most often ignored. And, that whether we spend our days sweeping our sidewalk with saggy boobs, paving bumpy roads, harmonizing tourists at Café’ du Monde, dealing drugs, loving children, hiding in beautiful homes or sleeping off a hangover in a cardboard box (or mansion), we are wonky.

    Ironically, if it weren’t for the wonky, the virtuous and lovely wouldn’t exist. New Orleans is lovely. Which is known by my unspoken agreement with a friendly drunk father: Our girls met on the swing set and developed an instant friendship. Every afternoon, we meet at the same neighborhood park. He teaches my daughter how to hopscotch. I teach his daughter how to pump her legs on the swing, while he takes a “break” to drink a tall boy and pee behind a bush. He drinks way too much, is crass, and a good daddy. Or you may find it in the tattooed cowboy who boils crawfish and is gentle and godly and a teacher of life skills to uneducated men. Or you may find it in the calming hand of the large black woman at Winn Dixie, who gently pats the back of the frazzled, young, white mother of a tantrum throwing toddler and says, “Baby, you gonna get through it. These times a gonna’ pass and she gonna be good.” Or, by a jolly pastor, a lover of all things spicy, cajun and New Orlenian excitedly reminding his congregation, week after week, to receive communion with cheer . The Lord’s Supper and Heaven are like Mardi Gras, he says. (Yes, I did say Mardi Gras.) We have the promise of life and redemption: Shout! Parade!Jump! Drink! Feast! Celebrate! Live!

    New Orleans is blatant about truth (good and bad), virtue and all things lovely. The streets are crooked and so are the people. Enjoyment of the city or even better, love of it, comes at the expense of being “straight.” It will love you, convict you, celebrate with you, grieve you, feed you (really well), expose you, entertain you ,bless you, confuse you, and befriend you.; If you are wonky, it will make sense to you. Even more lovely, it will make sense of you.--------------

    Monday, October 10, 2011

    The Wizard of Oz and Church

    Dorothy (The Wizard of Oz one) and her peeps are all the rage in this home of mine. Halloween and all its magical wonder has taken over. The glitter is already worn of the toes of her ruby reds and her blue and white checked dress that arrived 3 days ago is stained with all manner of dirt and paint and toothpaste. I am rather certain that she dressed herself for church before I was awake, so that I would have zero say so in her outfit choice. Proud little Dorothy was reared and ready to go in her Sunday best at the crack of dawn.

    Making our way to church was typical: Dorothy fussing at Toto for barking too loud, me (Glinda) having to oil the Tin Man because he is so rusty and SLOW, while the Munchkin blows out her diaper and poos all over Glinda, and for the first 5 minutes of the car ride, it seems there is a land that I am dreaming of that feels really far from the current one.

    I was sitting in church, nursing the munchkin, staring at my husband's dirty feet and hands wondering if he forgot to wash them in the shower and simultanelously loving that his hands are always caked in dirt of some sort. Always...because his hands are in the business of being useful and creative. Reaching for his dirty hand in church, I was reminded, as I am most Sundays of why I go to my church.

    I am very certain that nobody else noticed his dirty nails and if they did, they would understand them. And, why they were understanding dirty calloused hands, they were looking adoringly at my daughter who giggled her Dorothy self into my pew to steal my purse, while I unashamedly nurse my baby and struggle to see the Rev. who's face is blocked by the huge hat worn by the old granny in front of me. After the sermon, we have a meet and greet before receiving communion and everytime, Ms. Louise (another Granny) and I look for each other and talk about what we bought at the Farmer's market last Tuesday. Then, she kisses my cheek and her one long whisker tickles my face. And then we all hold hands and sing the Lord's prayer and I really believe that the hands I am holding know what it means to ask for daily bread and to long for God's kingdom on earth as it is in heaven. When I receive communion and I am holding my baby, her little forehead gets gently patted and blessed with some gentle words like, "may the Lord make His face to shine upon you." And then before it's all over, with a blessing from the Rev. and some good old fashioned church cookies and coffee, my kids are adorned with lipstick kisses from a variety of different grannies, most of which are eager to get home to watch their favorite NFL team win a football game.

    It's a land I dreamt of for some time. It's not even over the rainbow and I don't have to click my heels to get there.




    Now, don't you think the Tin Man needs to wear this instead?

    Munchkins have dirty hands and feet too, right?

    Friday, October 7, 2011

    Housework, Sex and Van Morrison

    One of my bosoms just told me I need to be a consistent blogger. Monday. Wednesday. Friday. Those are my days. But my camera is dead so I can't interest you with photos and I am supposed to be cleaning my home instead of typing. But alas, in the name of consistency, I type (but quickly). Two things on the agenda today. 1. Clean House (because mamma aint happy starting the weekend off with dust and laundry..and if Mamma aint happy, .....) 2. Listen to music. Pandora delivers. Van Morrison delivers. Van Morrison gets me in a lovin' kinda mood. You? Good thing its the weekend. Lots of time for lovin. Which brings me to think about a book I once read. The lady rambled on about how important it is for men to assist in housework if they want to increase their wife's non distracted involvement during that three letter word. You know, the one that starts with an S and ends with an x. Or better said, if you want your wife thinking about your hot self rather than laundry, then help her get it done. I think it's rather genius. For the most part. I would add and subtract to other things she said (and believe you me, I have.) Including, if you have more time than your husband to do the mundane, like clean, humble yourself and do it. I am humble today. And I am cleaning. And this weekend, I'll be lovin'. Crazy Love.

    You? Not feeling the love? Here, maybe he will help:




    Wednesday, October 5, 2011

    Rolling With My Homies

    The husband doesn't quite meet bosom buddy criteria. But, he sure as hell, is awesome. I like the way he rolls. My kids do too.

    Monday, October 3, 2011

    Sacred Stories-The Only Kind


    I come from a social tradition, of sorts, that gets excited to give their daughters dolls they cannot play with; you know the ones that sit on the shelf. These dolls are usually accented by a few other non-kid friendly breakables. .…little breakable figurines. Some of mine were these porcelain doll figurines that I received each year from birth through my sweet sixteen. The baby one is a babe in a bed, the first birthday is a little pretty tot holding a number one; each year the girls got a little taller and doned a different color dress. The sweet sixteen year old holds her sixteen proudly. Back when I got her, I liked her because she reminded of the girl in The Sound of Music. Anyhow, these dolls took their place one by one on my do not touch shelf throughout my childhood. The same Christmas I received my sound of music chick, I also received a Waterford crystal angel figurine from my first boyfriend. (Because, nothing says love like a crystal angel from your boyfriend’s parents.) The next Christmas I received that angel's twin. (Same boyfriend)
    The band of breakable girls and their late guardian angels lived on that same shelf until they moved into a box when my parents moved out of my childhood home. Then, my daughter had her first birthday and I had this awful dilemma on whether or not to have a do not touch shelf. I mean, my grandmother did give them to me, and they did stare at me for 18 years and admittedly, I kind of like them..And the angels are wonderfully reminiscent of my first love and all that I was and wasn't for years and years of teenage drama and sloooow maturation. On the one hand, it seemed sweet and sentimental to give these to my daughter; And on the other , I am rather anti toward all things that tell kids not to be kids.
    Now that my daughter is 5, and she has discovered the do not touch items, she begs to play with them. I let her and reminded her to use her “soft touches, like we do with babies.” Needless to say, after a few of them lost their heads in a rather imaginative game of hide and go seek, I decided to send the figurines back to their box..But I couldn’t put the angels in a box.
    These damn angels! (yikes, is that blasphemous?) What to do with them? (I still haven’t decided) So they sit in the far corner of my daughter’s closet, where their heads are safe but close enough where I am reminded, not of my first boyfriend and his parents so much, but that like everybody, I have a history and my story, like everyone’s, is sacred and important and in need of soft touches.







    email me: grannysbosom@gmail.com

    Friday, September 30, 2011

    TCB

    Taking Care of Business. Did you know that Elvis developed his own form of Karate? He coined it TCB. Google it. Elvis really is fascinating. So much so, I danced with him at my wedding. For reals. My husband may or may not rock a tattoo that reminds me of all things Elvis and his awesomeness (but not as awesome as boobs). Anyhow, TCB....Take Care of Business. This weekend it will be our family motto. Inevitably, this will include but not be limited to: Our daughter corralling our pet chicken:

    And, warding of tantrums from our fashionista by creating and cannibilizing favorite clothing, to suit her liking and growth spurts. Like this:



    How about you? Weekend plans?


    Till Monday,


    Granny















    Would love to hear from you!
    Email me: grannysbosom@gmail.com

    Wednesday, September 28, 2011

    Bosoms

    Boobs. Boobies.Bosoms. Breasts. TaTa’s: They are the stuff life is made of. Literally and figuratively. Without em’ us humans would have died. They are practical and sensual and sexual and maternal and sexy and gross and mostly, just awesome. Awesome because of the aforementioned reasons, of course. And, because they are comforting in the midst of being so, well, versatile. (which brings us full circle to them being awesome). Who doesn’t feel comfort when lying on the breast of a woman? Babies do. People of all ages do. Ever met a man who didn’t find comfort in a breast? Women do too. I still rest my head on my Mom’s chest when I feel sad. You? If not, I bet you wish you could or wanted to. As for my own, their most sacred and enjoyable use has been nursing my daughters and giving them a human pillow for rocking and sleeping. Although my husband may argue otherwise. (wink, wink).



    My friends from all stages of life would vouch that I am grannyish in my ways. My college roomates were so certain about this fact that they referred to me exclusively as Granny. I fall asleep early (and in mid sentence), I walk around the house wrapped in a blanket; even when its 90 degrees out, I worry about children and safety, I like to sip coffee and talk about life (preferably in a rocking chair on my porch), I never run out of words. I like to give unsolicited advice,and unfiltered commentaries on whatever or whomever I have an opinion, I am a terrible driver, I forget important facts and lose important things, I nap regularly and wake to the sound of a crowing chicken on a daily basis.


    Granny, though, wasn’t my only name during college. In fact, I had a double name: Granny Bos. As in ,Granny Bosom Buddy. We, my friends, were bosom buddies. Still are. They know me well. They seem to think that I have a good bit in common with most people and should therefore write with and to and for the bosoms out there. So I am.



    Best,



    Granny
































































    Email Me: grannysbosom@gmail.com